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God’s Will for Your Life:  Provisions for Decisions

October 1, 2006

Rev. Dr. Christopher Carlson

An ancient Chinese story about a farmer who had a horse that helped him plow the fields and one day the horse ran away.  His friends came over and commiserated with him about the bad luck he had and the farmer replied “Bad luck, good luck, who knows?”  Well a few days later the horse returned but he brought with him ten other horses that had been wild in the mountains and just brought them home.  Well the friends came over again, this time congratulating the farmer on his good luck.  The farmer said “Good luck, bad luck, who knows?”  Well a few days later the farmer’s son was trying to break one of the wild horses and fell off and broke his leg.  The friends show up again; they knew the drill, commiserating with his bad luck. And the farmer said “Bad luck, good luck, who knows?”  Well a few days later the Army showed up and conscripted all the young men in the village.  When they came to the farmer’s son and saw that he had a broken leg, they let him go.  Good luck, bad luck, who knows?  

 

I’ve come to believe that luck is the faith of the age.  Many people believe in God but they put their trust in luck.  I think we can see that in the growth of the lottery and the poker shows and that.  I’m not saying it’s wrong to watch poker or even play it; but it’s got such a huge thing.  People trust their luck more than they do the Lord.  It’s not without reason that the word “luck” doesn’t appear in the bible; because the bible, Christians, don’t believe in luck.  We believe in providence.  Providence is that power of God which orders things which takes care of His children.  It is in the context of providence that I’m continuing my series of sermons on “Discovering God’s Will”; because in His providence, God provides things which help us find His will.  You know, it seems to be almost like street wisdom out there, that God’s will is so mysterious we can’t find it.  We’re kind of on our own that it can’t be known.  But I’m here to tell you that God has provided many things to help us discover His will.  That’s what I want to talk about today.

 

In preparation for the sermon, I’ve chosen some scripture to read, one of which we did read as our responsive reading.  The other is from Proverbs 3 verses 5 and 6.  I’ve shared with you in the past that this is my life verse, or one of them.  And it goes like this:

 

Trust in the Lord with all your heart.  Don’t lean on your own understanding.  In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path.

 

This is the word of the Lord.  Would you pray with me? 

 

Father in heaven I give you this time.  May you help us discover your will for us.  May you encourage us in the fact that you are our God and that you lead us and guide us.  You have not left us in the dark.  Lord, prepare our hearts for the service of communion.  Prepare us for your presence and the blessing that is that time.  We pray in Jesus name.  Amen.

 

As I said, the bible doesn’t believe in luck and yet I think even Christians believe in luck too much.  I read a story about John Wesley, who was the founder of Methodism, who was going to be married to a woman.  In order to discover whether he should do that or not, he took his bible and threw it down on the table and read what was there, by luck, if you will.  Well, no one really knows what it said but he didn’t marry that women.  I have to believe that it was something like this:  A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping on a rainy day.  Or maybe it was like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion…oh well.  You know I usually pick on the men, so….I’m not really trying to pick on anyone.  Even John Wesley, but I think that must have been before he really came into a powerful relationship with God.  God has provided many things in which to tell us how we discover His will.  I have arranged these things through the letter “P” and in some cases they might be a little bit of a stretch but I’ll tell you what they are. 

 

The first is providence, not the first blank, but it really is providence that provides direction.  The first thing in His providence that God has given us is what we might call a prescription, or the bible itself.  You know, many Christians don’t even read the bible.  Many people don’t take it very seriously and maybe that’s because we have been raised in this modern era which is so scientific, in which is so intellectual it looks down upon things of faith.  We tend to look at the bible and say “Oh it’s just this conglomeration of stuff” and that kind of thing.  It is not.  The bible itself says that it is “inspired or God breathed.” We don’t know exactly the process; but God, over hundreds of years, inspired people to tell the same story, in different ways.  If you don’t know the scripture or you’re not reading the scripture you’re kind of like a person lost in the woods without a compass or a flashlight.  You know, in the Army, one of the things they really do to us is they stick us out in the woods with a compass and a flashlight and say “Make it home”.  “Make it back to camp.”  “Here are the coordinates.”  Have you ever been in the woods, just deep in the woods, without a frame of reference?  I have.  And you could get lost in a heartbeat.  Even with a compass, it’s difficult.  But if you’re not reading the scriptures you are kind of like that.  If you don’t have a compass and you don’t a light, you can be sure that you’re going to go in the wrong direction and get lost.  Other people say “Why did this happen to me?  What’s wrong?”  Well if you read the word, and you obeyed it… 

 

Within the scripture there are three things God gives us.  One is precepts or laws and commands.  You know we’ve all heard of the Big Ten, and it’s not the restaurant in Hopkins.  It is of course the Ten Commandments.  Many people have said that the Ten Commandments are not suggestions; they’re commands, and rightly so.  But the bible is full of commands, hundreds of them, and they’re not suggestions.  You know, I’ve said many times that God is not a cosmic killjoy.  He doesn’t sit around going “You shouldn’t do this and you shouldn’t do that”  “Don’t have fun.”  “Don’t do this, don’t do that.”  God gives us the way the world works through His commands and says “If you do this, you’ll live; you’ll be O.K.” in most cases.  And so there are commands all through the bible.  Start with the basic ones, like “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and mind and soul.”  That’s not a suggestion.  “Love your neighbor as yourself.”  Not a suggestion. “Go therefore and make disciples.”  Not a suggestion.  And yet hundreds of churches of all denominations are out there dying because they’re not following that command.  Over the last few weeks I’ve talked about marriage and sexuality.  It says in the bible, “Don’t have sex before your marriage.”  That’s not a suggestion and yet people do it.  There are perils sometimes and there is heartache, for sure.  “Don’t lust.”  Not a suggestion.  All kinds of commands, precepts, laws. 

 

Another thing God gives us within the bible is principles.  Now principles I would describe as things you can read in the bible and infer how to live.  You can read a story, you can read a certain passage, and say “This is what we ought to do.”  Now they’re a kind of step down from laws, if you will, not quite as direct; and you have to be a little careful with them, but they are also very real.  An example would be if you remember the story of the young man, the young rich man, who came to Jesus and said “What is the greatest commandment?”  And Jesus said “Well you tell me?”  The man said “Well to love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul.”  Jesus said “That’s right, but one thing you lack.  Sell everything you have and come follow me.”  Now some people have through history inferred the principle that we ought to sell everything we have.  I don’t think that’s what it means.  There is a principle there; but it’s actually much deeper.  The principle is unless the Lord is the Lord of everything including your wallet, he’s not the Lord.  I have found, at least in my own life and many other lives, that the last thing we really want to give up is our wallet.  That’s why that story is there.  Next week I’ll conclude my series of sermons on just a list of principles to live by.  

 

The third thing that God gives us in the bible subset of prescription is examples or pictures, if you will.  Paul says that these things have been written or these things happen to them, those people in the bible, for us.  So if you read the bible, you get pictures of how people lived and what they did and the choices that they had to face.  They had to discover God’s will as well.  How did they do it?  Did they do it correctly?  And there are a lot of negative events in the bible as well as positive.  I said before that it has always amused me how in the older Sunday school material you would always see “Live like David.”  “Be like Samson.”  Well, yes, and no.  Be like Sampson, the last hour of his life.  The rest you could forget, except in a negative way.  Because he just messed up time after time after time; but that in itself teaches us.  Or David.  I can’t wait to meet David.  But yet there are things about David you don’t want to be like.  Those people were just like us, human beings, sinners, facing hard choices, doing well in some cases and doing not so well in others.  Pictures, if you will. 

 

And speaking of people, that’s the second thing God gives us.  We have prescriptions and now we have people.  I’m not simply talking about any kind of people.  God leads us to Godly people or our people of the church.  The bible again and again and again says you know there are no such things as lone ranger Christians.  You’ve got to be part of a group.  You’ve got to be part of the church family in order to live your Christian life well, because we help one another.  We help one another.  You can get so wrapped around the actual if you try to figure it all out yourself.  There are other people out there with other perspectives of how it goes on; and, you know, if nothing else, when you are facing some kind of problem to go to a friend and say “Just listen.  Let me talk it out with you.”  Again you have to be kind of careful.  People aren’t always right and you want to get several opinions, maybe, about something.  You have to make the decision in the end but it really helps.  God gives us people and leads us through them.  I remember so clearly in my church in West Virginia that as it came time for me to feel that I was supposed to leave, and I was feeling that, and yet I was really resisting it.  About five months I struggled with it, struggled with this idea; am I supposed to leave or to go?  I really didn’t want to for a lot of reasons.  But finally, the day before I had to make the decision I called a friend up and said “What do you think?”  And he said “Chris, you know, this is an opportunity you’ll never have again.  You need to go.”  And I knew he was right.  A friend, a godly friend, telling me the truth in the moment.  That’s what happens.

 

A third thing God gives us is prayer.  Paul says “Rejoice in the Lord always in everything with prayers and petitions.  Present your request to God.  Prayer is as much requesting things of God as it is listening to God.  I find in my own life, you know, a lot of times you don’t have time to sit down and pray so I pray in the car or whenever it is; but I really do need to sit down and find a quiet spot in order to listen.  I can talk while I’m in the car; I can’t really listen very well.  So I have to really just make the time and go sit out on the porch or find some place and say “O.K. Lord, it’s you and me; what do we do here?”  Then you have to be even more careful, I think; because if God does lead you through prayers but sometimes the way you feel or the answer you get maybe the pizza you had last night. So you have to be careful.  So you have to go talk to friends and you still have to go to the word.  If it goes against the word you shouldn’t do it.  But prayer is very real.  I would really encourage you, I’ve said many times, if you keep a list of your prayers and look back six month later you’ll find that a lot of those things you have talked about to God will have resolved itself.  Not every one of them; but many will.  It really builds your faith to see that.  So keep a list.  Pray to the Lord. 

 

Last, but not least, I said that God gives us people but he also gives us a person, and that person is none other than Himself.  The purpose of the Christian life is to get to know God and His character and His will.  That’s it!  That’s why we’re here.  You know, I mentioned “luck”.  Luck is really kind of a pagan way of looking at life because you don’t really believe there is anything in control.  Another way the ancients looked at life was that it was circular.  Everything went in a big circle and came round and round.  Certainly there are things that are cyclical, but it’s almost as though they believed that life was going around in circles.  But in the biblical perspective, it’s not that.  The best image of life in the bible is that it is a pilgrimage.  It is a path.  It is a direction.  It is a purpose in which we walk.  If the philosophy of going around in circles, if that is what life is, you might as well just eat, drink and be merry.  You might as well get what enjoyment you can and hold on because that’s all there is.  But if life has a purpose, and it does, you have a direction and you have a God who provides.  God in his providence leads you. 

 

Where is your trust?  Is it in luck?  Is it in yourself?  Or is it in the Lord?  Trust in the Lord with all your heart.  Don’t just trust in this, your own understanding.  In all your ways acknowledge Him.  He will direct your path.  He will let you know what you’re supposed to do.  That’s been my experience and the experience of millions of other Christians.  God will direct your path.  It’s not always easy; sometimes it’s just a step at a time.  Matter of fact I think that’s really what it is most of the time.  It’s just a step at a time.  But He will direct your path.  In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.  Amen