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Do You Have a Dream?

July 2, 2006

Rev. Dr. Christopher Carlson

In your lifetime what have you dreamed about doing or being? We all have dreams and I think particularly when we are young we have big dreams for the future.  But often as we go through our lives things happen which serve to kill our dreams or at least do damage to them.  I remember a minister friend of mine several years ago.  He was a person with whom I played basketball with all the time.  We used to go to the local “Y” and play basketball two or three times a week.  He said to me one day, “You know when I was in my early twenties I wanted to change the world.  Then in my late twenties I wanted to change the church.  Well by the time I got to my early thirties I just wanted to change my self.  Now that I am close to forty all I really want to do is improve my jump shot.”  I knew exactly what he was taking about at the time.  After awhile I couldn’t play basketball anymore so I had to find another sport. 

 

We all have dreams.  The funny thing about dreams is I really think they have a huge connection to faith.  Human beings have this wonderful capacity to be able to imagine ourselves in different places and different times.  And to imagine what might happen, to dream, if you will.  We can imagine where we might be in two years or three years. Or where we were ten years ago.  Some of you as you listen to this sermon are imagining what you are going to eat later.  When the football season comes around you will be imagining watching the game instead of listening to the sermon.  I’m just teasing.  It’s an amazing part or our being.  We can imagine, we can dream.  Dreaming has a lot to do with faith.  This morning we are going to continue a series of sermons that Buck started with the first one last week called “Achieving Through Believing”.  We are going to look at the nature of faith.  This morning we are going to talk about it in terms of orienting ourselves toward the future.  But to do that we are going to have to look at some things which we might call “dream killers” or “faith killers” and then we are going to talk a little bit about what we might do with those things.

 

I’m going to read you some scripture. Bible has a great deal to do with faith and it was hard to chose but just a couple. First from Jeremiah 29:11, the words are for the elders of Israel but I also think they have to do with us as well. Very familiar versus of the Bible from Jeremiah 29:11-14:

 

11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. 14 I will be found by you," declares the LORD, "and will bring you back from captivity.”

 

From Hebrews 11:1 the nature of faith, notice the future orientation.

 

            Now faith is the evidence of what we hope for and the certainty of what we do not see.

 

This is the Word of the Lord.

 

Thanks be to God.

 

Would you pray with me?

 

Father, help us today and in this series to see the nature of faith, to see the nature of our faith.  That it may grow and change and become pleasing to you.  We lift up this time Lord, particularly, as we prepare ourselves in hearing the Word for the supper.  We pray Lord you would be with us.  Touch our minds and hearts.  Amen. 

 

What is the biggest danger to our faith? Some people might say, and I think reasonably, that maybe one of the biggest dangers is the future.  After all we look out into the world and see all kinds of things that are wrong.  Even in our own lives what’s going to happen to us.  Will I be able to keep my job?  Will my children grow up healthy and well?  What will happen at that doctor’s appointment I have next week?  How long am I going to live?  All kinds of future things which are dangers to us and cause us to worry and can damage our faith.  I have come to believe that the biggest dangers, maybe not the greatest dangers, but some of the biggest dangers have to do with the past and with things that are going on in our lives right now.  Faith really does have to do with looking out into the future and imagining what might happen with God’s help.  One of the things that may be called a dream killer that really hurts us is our family.  I know that as I say that I’m on dangerous ground.  I want to say immediately, that I believe in families. God believes in families.  God works through families.  Families are a good thing.  But families are also quite dysfunctional.  If you don’t believe me, just look at yours.  I look at mine as well.  We all have skeletons in our closets.  We all have problems, some worse than others.  Every family has problems.  Every family has dysfunction.  All parents have damaged their children.  And all children, in some ways, have rebelled against their parents.   It is the way it goes.

 

The Bible is full of regular people.  If you want to find dysfunctional families all you have to do is start reading the Bible and you run into them.  One of the biggest dysfunctional family is the family of Jacob.  Jacob wound up with four wives, twelve different children with those wives and he played favorites.  The story of Joseph is one of the greatest in the Bible (Genesis 37:5-11, 19-20).  Here you had a man who was the tenth in his family. He was the favorite son of the favorite wife, all kinds of potential there.   Joseph was a dreamer.  He had dreams about the future.  They were God given dreams.  One day he told his whole family, “Guess what? I had a dream you are all going to serve me and I’m going to rule over you.” Now imagine little brother or little sister coming up in your family and saying, “Guess what?  You’re going to serve me.”  Joseph may not have been real smart at this point in telling the dream quite as dramatically as he did.  I think one of the things God had to work with him on over time was Joseph’s arrogance. I remember saying that once to somebody once and they said, “How dare you talk about Joseph that way.”  Again, that is what I love about the Bible.  God takes people who have all kinds of problems and makes something out of them.  You know the story.  In the end he actually did rule over his family and all of Egypt.  He was second in command.  Isn’t that what happens in families? 

 

Some parents never let their children grow up.  I’ve met some fifty year olds who are still treated like teenagers by their parents.  Some children never grow up because they’re rebels.  Little Johnny gets pegged as a certain thing and he is always going to be that way.  Or Little Susie is always going to be that way.  She fits in there.  The family imposes interpretations of someone’s life.  Many times the family can be dream killers, faith busters. 

 

I have a good friend who is a chaplain who talked about his father.  His father was a good man and yet when he came on the scene his father was such a man that he thought what you did with your life was simply go be a workingman.  You were either a farmer or worked in the factory or something.  Nothing wrong with that but my friend had a calling to the ministry and later to be a counselor.  His father never understood that until the last year of his life.  He apologized and said, “You know, I never understood you.”  How many times that story has been played out in one way or another? 

 

Another potential dream killer or faith buster is our friends.  Many stories in the Bible about this but one story in particular of Jairus who was a man whose daughter was sick until death, she was dying.  (Mark 5:35-36) He goes to Jesus to ask that he might heal her and along the way his friends are saying, “Don’t go bother the teacher, she’s dying.”  Finally, they said, “She is dead, don’t bother the teacher.”  Friends saying “Don’t have any faith. Don’t see any potential of this man being able to heal.”  In Psalm 1 it says, “Blessed is the one who does not keep the council of the wicked or sit in the seat of mockers.”  Who are those people?  They’re sometimes our friends.  Friends who draw us into lifestyles or ways of thinking that are not appropriate or not good.  I think maybe the greatest danger to our children is not rock and roll music.  Or maybe its not drugs and alcohol which is a huge danger but it may be friends.  If you have friends that are not good they will lead you down a path.  I am an example of that.  When I got to college I had friends that were nice guys but they had lifestyles that were not appropriate.  Guess who followed right into it?  It’s not all their fault, I’m not saying that but friends lead us down certain paths. 

 

Another dream buster maybe fatigue.  In our lifestyles right now we are doing so many things that we are just too tired.  In the Bible we see that story in the prophet Elijah (I Kings 19:1-10).  You had this huge spiritual experience on Mt. Carmel a defeat of the prophets of Baal. And yet right after that Jezebel comes after him.  It almost as though he looks back into his past and his memories and says, “Here we go again.”  He takes off running.  He runs from the north all the way to the south and along the way he falls down in exhaustion.  An angel comes to him and brings him water and food and says to him, “get up and eat, you are not strong enough to complete the journey.”  The angel does this a couple of more times until he completes the journey.  If you’re too tired you can’t have any kind of dreams or faith in the future.

 

The fourth thing might be the past.  There is a great story in the Bible of the children of Israel.  As the Israelites are leaving Egypt and they get to the Red Sea.  Before them in the sea, what is going to happen?  How are they going to get across?  It wasn’t that they were worried about.  Because low and behold guess who was coming down the pike?  The Egyptians changed their minds and started coming after the Israelites.  They were no longer worried about the Red Sea being front of them. They were worried about the Egyptians killing them.  The story is true but there is symbolism here.  The future challenge disappeared in their minds when all the stuff from the past began chasing them.  The future challenge of getting through this ocean disappeared when they had the past coming after them.  What did God do? God didn’t go ahead of them he planted himself behind his Shekinah Glory and stood in between them and the Egyptians.  You know the story, the ocean splits, they go through all the while God is guarding their six as we say in the military.  The things from our past and their past like slavery, hardship, death, heartache, all those things came rushing past them.  They even said to Moses, “Why did you bring us out into the desert? Just give us back to the Egyptians.”  Give us back to the past.  God stands in between them and their past and provides for their future. 

 

Which leads us to the fifth thing, another dream killer is simply failure.  There are so many stories in the Bible of failure.  One of the best is Peter.  Peter had a dream too. He was going to be the leader.  He was going to be the guy out front and he often was.  But remember the story how he said, “Oh Jesus, if they all fall away, I will never fall away.”  You know what happened.  He denied Jesus three times.  But that is not the glory of the story it goes on.  Jesus sat with Peter by the lake after the resurrection and forgave him.  We all fail.  There is a lot in our past that comes up.  It keeps us from believing in the future.  “Chris will never amount to anything, he’s not that smart.” “Johnny will never be able to play that instrument. He couldn’t carry a tune in a bucket.”  “He’s not athletic. He won’t be able to do that.”  “You really should go get a job in the factory instead of being a counselor.”  We have all kinds of things in the past, all kinds of things that we’ve done and hurt others and have been hurt.  We’re not only sinners we’ve been sinned against.  All that baggage is there.  Peter had a lot of baggage too.  Lots of baggage and Jesus forgave him.   Do you know what the biggest need the world needs now?  It’s not the song “what the world needs now is love sweet love”, but specifically, the kind of love we need is forgiveness.  We need to have forgiveness from God.  I talk a lot about evangelism.  Helping people know about Jesus.  It’s really helping them know that they can be forgiven.  More than that, it is forgiving ourselves.  When Peter looked at Jesus after he denied Jesus three times he had to forgive himself.  We need to forgive others as well.  We’re so full of resentment, so full of baggage, so full of the memories of the past that keeps us from going to the future.

 

What can we do about all that?  There are lots of things but just a few for today.  I’m going to ask you to pray about your own life.  What does God want you to do?  I don’t care how old you are.  What does God want you to do and be?  We all need a future to work toward.  We all need a vision, a God given vision.  Pray for wisdom.  Remember as we went through James a while back, “If any of you lacks wisdom let him ask God who gives to all generously.”  How many decisions do we make without even praying about them? So many things we never pray about until we make them and later on they are going wrong and we yell, “Help!”

 

Another chaplain friend that I worked with over the past couple of weeks we were talking and he shared with me.  We were talking about Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart.  Lean not on your own understanding but in all your ways acknowledge Him.  That is, simply pray about it.  In all your ways acknowledge Him, he’s the boss.  in all your ways acknowledge Him and he will direct your paths.  He said, “You know, that’s my life verse.”  I said, “Me too.”  I don’t always follow it but my life verse, one of them.  Pray for wisdom.

 

Stretch your imagination.  Paul says in Ephesians 3:20 He is able to do immeasurably more than you ask or imagine. There’s a challenge there.  How many of us believe it?  He is able to do immeasurably more than you ask or imagine.  Stretch your imagination.  Don’t let your God be too small.  Don’t try to fit God in a box.

 

Establish a goal.  It’s okay to have goals.  Paul says Philippians 3:13-14 I press on toward the goal I have in Jesus Christ.  He talks a lot about eternity. He talks about wanting to be with Jesus more than he wants to be here.  Its okay to have goals in this life as well.  If you don’t have goals, you’re just sitting around letting it all happen to you what kind of faith is that?

 

Visualize the results. Hebrews 11:1 Faith is the evidence of things not seen.   The secular mind says, “Faith is believing you know isn’t so.”  But the biblical definition faith is the evidence of things not seen.  There is an old philosophical problem about does God exist? I studied a lot of philosophy and that is one of the biggest questions.  There was a philosopher that talked about a garden.  There was this garden and he had various ways of sitting in the garden waiting to see if the gardener showed up.  His conclusion was that since the gardener never showed up was that there wasn’t a gardener.  In other words, a parable of the world, if we haven’t seen God, God does not exist.  What about the garden? What about the evidence of things not seen?  Faith is based on evidence.  Visualize the results.  There is evidence in your life that God is working. 

 

Commit your dream to God’s care.  Again Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart.  Lean not on your own understanding but in all your ways acknowledge Him.  He will direct your paths.

 

Last but not least, I will return to the memories.  Give God your memories.  Many memories are wonderful but of course many are not.  Life is tough.  Many of us have been pegged or put in this box or have had damage done to us by others or ourselves, the world has not treated us well.  Give your memories to God.  Let God and his Shekinah Glory stand between your past and you and that will enable you to go through the Red Sea of your life, to go into the future.  Give God your past.  It begins right here (the Lord’s Table).  We are reminded to remember the Lord’s body and shed for us.  Healing begins right here. 

 

In the name of the Father, and the Son and the Holy Spirit let us pray.

 

Father in heaven thank you for healing us of all that is wrong, the process of healing, Lord, we thank you.  We thank you for Jesus who heals us.  We pray that His healing would continue to work in our bodies and our minds and our souls, that we might have faith, faith that looks to the future, of not only eternity but our lives right now.  Hope based on evidence that are real and yet not seen.  Now father, prepare our hearts, help us to know your presence and your love as we have heard your Word and now partake of the Holy Supper.  In Jesus name, Amen.