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January 7, 2007

        Rev. William “Buck” Day

Our scripture today comes from the book of Ephesians, and it is the 4th chapter and we are going to read a portion of it.  We are going to read versus 17 through 24.  So I invite you to follow along in your pew bibles or you can just listen.

 

Here is the word of God for us this day.

 

Now this I affirm and insist on in the Lord.  You must no longer live as the Gentiles live in the futility of their minds.  They’re darkened in their understanding alienated from the life of God because of their ignorance and hardness of heart.  They have lost all sensitivity and abandoned themselves to licentiousness, greedy to practice every kind of impurity.  That is not the way you learned Christ.  For surely you have heard about Him and were taught in Him as truth is in Jesus.  You were taught to put away your former way of life, your old self, corrupt and deluded by its lusts; and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds; and to clothe yourselves with a new self, created according to the likeness of God, in true righteousness and holiness.

 

That is the word of God today.

 

Thanks be to God.

 

Would you join me as we pray?

 

Lord thank you for your word.  Thank you for the way it instructs.  Thank you for the way it informs.  And thank you, oh Lord, that it is your gift to us so that we might know you more fully.  So Lord we ask that by the power of your Spirit that we would know you better as a result of our time together this day.  Quicken our hearts to hear what your Spirit is saying to our hearts.  Amen.

 

Well it’s the New Year, isn’t it?  It’s the New Year and I think all of us are looking for ways to perhaps make some positive changes in our lives.  Obviously one of the ways that we typically do that around the New Year is resolutions.  Of course, one of those New Year resolutions that is probably on, well, I don’t know about everybody, but the majority of our plates is the resolution to lose a little weight.  I’m not going to ask you to raise your hands…. if you have taken that as your resolution; however, I have my hand raised.  You can do with that as you see fit.  The one thing about New Year’s resolutions, however, is that by the second week in January most of them have already fallen by the wayside; that’s what studies show us.  But there are other experiences in our lives that you would think, by the nature of that experience itself, would bring lasting change into our lives.  Think about those who have gone through heart bypass surgery.  That is one of those things that should bring lasting change, right?  Last year there were over 600,000 heart bypass surgeries performed in the U.S.; and everyone of those patients, I’m sure, were told by their doctor that they need to make some permanent changes to their lifestyle, around things like probably exercise, diet, smoking, alcohol, those kinds of things.  Yet studies show us that 90% of people who have heart bypass surgery don’t make permanent changes that result in better heart health.  What does that say? That says to me that, you know what, this idea of making lasting change is really hard to come by.  I think that is universal for all people in our world. 

 

But for those of us who are followers of Christ who are trying to live faithfully, there is also another piece that is part of our puzzle that we need to bring into our lives.  That is to be transformed into the likeness of Christ; we are to begin to live like Christ.  2 Corinthians 5:17 tells us that “we are new creatures, that we are new creatures in Christ; the old is gone, the new has now come!”  That idea, this new creatureness, has echoed through our text today.  Paul starts this exhortation about our new creatureness by saying, “It is in the Lord that I affirm this to you, not my own authority.”  And he is saying “Folks, stand up!  Take notice!  This is something that Christ wants of you, not just me.  Be that new creature.  Be that new creature that you were created to be.  Your old way of life, that wasn’t of Christ, it’s not worthy of this new creatureness that you now have.” 

 

So Paul begins to layout in our text what the behavior is that is of Christ and what is not.  And if you continue on in verses 25 through the rest of the chapter, Paul becomes even more specific about what those behaviors look like.  He is saying through that that our behavior should reflect Christ; and it should, that is part of who we are in Christ.  But I think many of us kind of stop right there at the text, and that’s all the farther we go with it.  We falsely believe that following Christ is only about right and wrong behavior.  Our thinking says that somehow we must in our own strength, by the power of our own will, live out right actions, because we live in a world that’s looking at us and judging us.  It becomes the measure of our spirituality to the world, and lots of times to each other, that if we can live out this right action, this right behavior, then we are good to go.  Dallas Willard is a professor at the University of Southern California; but he is also a Christian and one of the foremost experts on spiritual transformation.  He says this kind of mindset of doing it on our own, and it’s all about our behaviors he calls externalism.  And he says “that this kind of externalism leads to a deadening legalism and a provincial parochialism.”  Jesus had a word for it too.  He called it the righteousness of the scribes and the Pharisees.  I think that is where this text has the ability to cut to the heart of the matter.  True spiritual transformation allows the words and the deeds of Christ to naturally flow out of us, so we need right behavior.  But when we have been spiritually transformed, they naturally flow out of us as a result of inward transformation of our heart or our spirit.  Paul is telling us to be those new creatures that we were created to be. First we must, in order to do that, allow our spirit to be changed inwardly; and then our outward behaviors will begin to change as a result of that.  They will naturally flow from that inward change. 

 

I was thinking about how to, kind of, help us understand that.  Tell me if this works for you.  This will maybe give you a glimpse into my mind, I don’t know.  It’s like trying to bake a cake without an oven.  We all like cake, right?  Cake is good.  We like to eat cake.  But it is like taking all of the ingredients of making a cake and putting them in a pan and just letting them sit there.  That’s not cake, is it?  A cake needs to be put in an oven to be changed from the inside out so that it can become cake.  Acting out with just right actions, in our own strength, without inward transformation is like mixing the ingredients of spirituality into the pan but not doing anything else with it.  It doesn’t transform us into the likeness of Christ.  When actions are transformed in the oven of our heart, then, transformation can really take hold for lasting change.  This kind of spiritual transformation moves us.  It move us away from ourselves from relying on our own strength, our own will, our own might; and it moves us towards depending more on God and His grace.  True spirituality, I think, begins to move us from self-control to God’s control.  Who has the final word in your life?  Do you, or God?  The decisions that you make in your life around your spirit, your mind, your body, your social context, and your soul, those five categories, are categories that Willard uses to describe the entirety of who we are as humans.  When we make those decisions that affect the totality of our humanity, who makes those calls?  You or the Spirit of God within you?  Some people use the phrase “who’s the king of your life?”  Other people have talked about it as “who’s on the throne in your life, you or God?”  Spiritual transformation is about giving up control.  Spiritual transformation is also about our desires, for it moves us from self desires to godly desires.  Those five areas I just mentioned, spirit, mind, body, social context and soul, which of those has the most influence to affect your will, and as a result, your actions?  And how does God influence those desires? 

 

Spiritual transformation also moves us from self power, to God’s power.  It’s an issue of grace here, I think, as well.  It is acknowledging that true change comes from God’s work within us, God’s power at work within us, not as a result of our human effort, our human desire.  Spiritual transformation like this is holistic in nature becoming like Christ.  Becoming like Christ is not just a spiritual component for the spiritual portion of our lives.  What we are talking about is spiritual transformation that affects all of our lives.  This kind of spiritual transformation moves us from desiring what we currently don’t desire, and away from desiring what we currently do desire.  Let me say that again.  Spiritual transformation moves us towards desiring what we currently don’t desire, and away from desiring what we currently do desire.  When a child walks into a candy store, what do they desire?  Candy!  Right?  If a child walks into a candy store and doesn’t desire candy, they’ve been transformed, haven’t they?  That’s the call of Paul.  Be renewed in the spirit of your mind is about no longer wanting the thoughts, the things, and the behaviors that we wanted before.  That is spiritual transformation.  That is what God is desiring of each one of us. 

 

So if that’s the ‘what’ of transformation, what’s the ‘how’ of spiritual transformation?  How do we become transformed spiritually if it’s more than just doing right things, acting in a correct manner?  And again I think our text here from Paul points to it without necessarily directly stating it.  In our text Paul says that you “learn from Christ a different way to live.”  You learned about him, you were taught about him; and then he adds that phrase “that truth is in Jesus”.  In other words, the person of Jesus is the way that we find spiritual transformation; seeking the person of Jesus is the gateway to be taught of about Christ, to know who he is, to know how he thought, how he lived, how he related with others, with God the Father.  Those are all important for those that heard that message from Paul and read his letters, and it continues to be important for us two thousand years later.  Two thousand years later we are still called to seek Jesus.  That is more than just trying to emulate his actions.

 

You know I think that a lot of us felt like when we came to Christ we were found.  We even sing of the song “I was lost but now I’ve been found.”  We think about that at conversion that Christ found us.  We think “Well, I’ve been found; that’s all I need.  I’ve been found.”  We’ve been found and we think there is nothing left for us to have to seek.  But being found is just the beginning, that’s just getting in the door.  Living a life that continually seeks Jesus is the next step.  Continually being found by Christ is what it’s about.  This continual seeking of Christ and his truth is what brings about the renewal of the spirit of our minds, as Paul says.  So we can seek Christ; that is our goal.  How do we seek Christ?  Well we can seek Christ through scripture, that’s an important piece for us right now because that’s how we know him.  I think that speaks to the power of bible study, of being in God’s word, of understanding the word.  Because in scripture it helps us, it brings our transformation because where, what, Christ is found in scripture. 

 

Seeking Christ I think can also be found through prayer.  I’m sure that if we would go out and start talking about it, we could probably come up with a whole list of ways that we could seek Christ, and they’re important, and we need to be doing those.  But don’t limit yourself to seeking Christ only through, catch this, self-directed actions.  It’s about me doing bible study; it’s about me doing prayer; it’s about me doing the other things that we would come up with.  They’re important to do but don’t limit yourself to that because then we begin to fall back into that trap that transformation is all about us and our actions.  That somehow God is just kind of sitting back, looking down on us and saying, “O.K. prove to me how committed you are to me.  How hard are you willing to work to be transformed?”  Do you see how that leads us back to self-control, self-desires and self-power? 

 

Seeking Christ also requires a yielding of ourselves to Christ.  I think that becomes a very nebulous, kind of, hard to define term and I think it isn’t something that just kind of happens.  I think it is something that kind of grows over time, this idea of desiring to yield ourselves.  I think the starting place for it is calling out to God, saying “God, come, meet me here; I need you.”  And lots of times it kind of comes with a yearning that may be hard to define or describe.  But maybe it comes with a little bit of a dissatisfaction that what you are doing now is not working.  That the things you have done in the past don’t bring the same benefits any more.  You are tired of living the same old life, doing the same old things and not getting any different results.  Perhaps for some of us it’s acknowledging that you know what, and maybe it’s only acknowledging it to ourselves, that I’m no different than the people that I work with that don’t know Christ.  My life isn’t that much different than theirs, or perhaps my life isn’t that much different than before I came to Christ.  There is this hunger for something more in life, something that you are beginning to realize is not found in yourself but it’s found in God.  This yearning continues to build, I think, that moves you to want to change, to get to the point where “I want to make a difference.  I want to be changed.  I want to make a difference in the world.  I want to give something rather than just get something.”  You get to the point of “you know what God, I don’t care what it takes; I just have to be different.  It’s got to be better than this.”  And that yielding, that yielding releases our self, releases our self-control, releases our self desires, releases our self-power to God.  And when we do that, when we begin to yield ourselves to Christ, he promises that he will come.  He will find us.  And when he comes he will blow into our hearts with a fresh wind.  The power of the Holy Spirit will come into us in a new and powerful way.  It will re-energize us.  It will be like the first nice day in spring, you know, when you can throw open the windows of the house and you’re like “Yes!  Fresh air!”  That’s what it’s like.  It brings a newness of life, a spark speaks to the desires in our lives because our desires are slowly being transformed and moved closer to God’s desires.  Yielding ourselves to Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit is a courageous step, some might even say a dangerous step; but, you know what, I think it is a necessary step that each one of us must take.  For when we take that, it will bring benefits not just to you individually, but it begins to have a ripple effect as your heart begins to swell.  It begins to ripple beyond you to your family; beyond you to the church; beyond you to the world. 

 

When we look at this idea of yielding ourselves to Christ from a historical perspective, when people have sought Christ in his presence for themselves and the people around them, God has co-operated with their seeking.  He has transformed them and the communities they are a part of with the real and powerful presence of Christ.  That seeking and yielding ourselves to Christ has always been one of those precursors that are necessary for revival, when you look at the history of revival down through the ages.  When people seek Christ with all of their heart, God comes in a powerful way not just historically but also as a present reality, now. 

 

Right behavior is a result of a change in our thinking, not just doing.  It changes our thinking as we seek Christ.  Seeking the Holy Spirit is yielding ourselves to Christ’s presence that is already within us, and this kind of transformation is a gift of grace from the Father.  It is a gift that can change one person’s faith and through it has the power to change the world.  When we think about September 11, 2001, we know the havoc that it wreaked, the changes that it brought.  The world changed that day.  The way we view the world changed.  Global economy has changed as a result of that.  Our vocabulary changed; we now know what ‘ground zero’ means.  When you think about all the change that that brought, and then you think about that was done by less than two dozen men.  You wonder “how could that much change be brought by so few?”  And before you begin to think about their intentions, because their intentions were evil, know this:  evil does not have a monopoly on change.  Remember the words of Christ, “He who is in you, is greater that he who is in the world.”  So as you think about what they did with just a few people, imagine the greater power that is within us and the things that could be done through just a small group of people who seek Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit in powerful ways.  What kind of transformation could happen?  What kind of transformation could happen at a place like Faith Church? At a place like your heart?   Words for us to think about.  Amen.

 

Let me pray for us.  Let’s spend a moment in prayer.

 

Lord, God, I ask that you would move in our hearts.  Help us to seek you, to turn over a new leaf, to yield ourselves to you in new ways.  And Lord I ask by your Spirit that you would help us to determine in our own hearts and our own minds what that means for each one of us individually.  So Lord we give you just a few moments of silence to listen to you, to yield ourselves to you, so that as we come to this table, it might be a great meeting, a great affirmation of what you will do because of what you have done.  Lord we ask that in your name.   Amen.