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"The Giving Nature of God"

 

October 26, 2003 The Rev. Dr. John Ward

 

I invite you to turn to page 72 in the New Testament Bible.  In the pew Bibles there, you'll find the passage that we'll be looking at this morning having to do with relationship-building with God.  It is quite often called "prayer," but, again, as we have been learning, prayer is much more than asking, much more than ritual.  It is, indeed, relationship.  That is my favorite phrase.  It came from Nicky Gumbel out of the "Alpha" material.  If you've been to Alpha, or have taught Alpha, you've heard it.  And, again, if you've heard me talk on prayer here, you've heard it, because I love it:  "Prayer is relationship, not ritual."  When you understand the relationship with God, you are in prayer with God in many forms. 

 

And so comes Jesus talking to the disciples on prayer.  This is as it is recorded in Luke's gospel.  If you look at the beginning of His teaching on prayer, right at chapter 11--that's down on the bottom left-hand corner.  You'll see that He's teaching on the Lord's Prayer, as the disciples were asking to be taught how to pray.  Well, right after Jesus teaches the disciples that prayer, He begins to talk to them about prayer.  And, again, not just giving them--in fact, this was never to be a ritualized prayer.  This is supposed to be "pray in this manner"--in a sense, as an outline for prayer, as the Lord's Prayer was originally intended.  We always need to remember that.  That it's not about memorizing the Lord's Prayer that we give to God and give it to Him over and over again, as though God likes to hear repeated messages from us all the time, as if we have somehow to bug God enough to try to get His attention.  In fact, that's what we'll be reading about in just a second.  No, it's an outline for prayer.  In all the ways in which we pray, we acknowledge God in ways that Jesus taught the disciples to acknowledge Him.  Now, we do this every week in worship.  It's appropriate for us to use it as a ritual of worship.  But remember, friends, it's about relationship with God.  And here is the proof as Jesus--right after He teaches the disciples this prayer, perhaps thinking that they, too, would like to make it into a ritual, He talks about the relationship.  So we're going to look now at verse 5 of chapter 11, again on page 72 in the pew Bibles there.

 

And he said to them [and that's Jesus, of course], "Suppose one of you has a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say to him, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; for a friend of mine has arrived, and I have nothing to set before him.'  And he answers from within, 'Do not bother me; the door has already been locked, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.'  I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, at least because of his persistence he will get up and give him whatever he needs. 

[verse 9:]  "So I say to you, Ask, and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you.  For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.  Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead of a fish?  Or if the child asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?  If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"

 

This is the Word of the Lord.

Thanks be to God.

 

Indeed, we're in a stewardship season now and we're beginning to hear about that even more formally.  Dave and Marilyn, thank you so much for coming up and giving us a bit of why you are grateful and how the Lord has made stewardship understood to you with regard to God's graciousness to you and to all of us.  That is appropriate for what we're doing today.  As Will said, we're defining this as a thematic approach, and the overall theme is "What's next, God?"  The good news is it's "What's next, God?"  Now, you can change it a little bit and it can turn around to, "What now, God?"  I want you to know that's not what it is!  We feel as though in the life of Faith Presbyterian Church as we're on the bubble here as the Pastor Nominating Committee is getting very close to finding the person that God has chosen for us.  And soon we will be hearing from them in their search process on our behalf.  And it won't be long before they present to us someone who will be the next Pastor for Faith Church. 

 

We want to have an attitude of readiness for that, and that's the reason why our Stewardship Committee has said, "What's next?" or "What next, God?"  We're ready to go.  And in that, then, we've defined this as "grateful," "ready," "willing" and "able."  And the "ready," "willing" and "able" three Sundays are really the heart of the stewardship piece.  But we need to start with gratefulness.  Then we're also going to finish with "thankfulness," because the Sunday that we receive our pledge cards, we will ask you to fill those out and to bring them to church with you at the Thanksgiving service, just like we did last year.  We really appreciated the opportunity to do that.  As many of you fill out those pledge forms, if you would bring them to church on that Thanksgiving Sunday, our Sunday before Thanksgiving, where we all come together as a church in the activity center.  We will bring those forward, we will lay hands on those as we did last year, and ask God's blessing for those.  So, again, "What's next, God?"  (not "Now what, God?") is our theme and we begin today with "gratefulness."

 

Especially for the legacy of those who have helped us grow in Christ, specifically those who have been the members of Faith Church, many of whom (as we know) have gone on to be with the Lord. We have, I don't know if you can say "suffered through."  I think what we've done is we've "ministered through" a time of losing some of our great pillars recently.  Again, many funerals have happened, with many long-time members, pillars of the church.  But, again, we can grieve through it--we do grieve through it, but we also grow through it as well as God, in His plan for life, brings us to a beginning and an ending here.  For those who believe in Jesus Christ, we have an eternity with the Lord, and so we do not grieve as those who have no hope, for we have the hope of Christ to come and to bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus.  That's right out of Scripture.  We say that at almost every one of our memorial services to remember people.

 

Now, it's important for us not only to know that as God takes those away who were such great pillars to us, He calls us as well to be pillars for others.  So if you think of the person, perhaps one of those--gosh, since January I think we have had 17 or 18 memorial services.  Almost every one of those have been long-lived members of our church.  If you think of those who have passed away since January or many more before that, that you really thought of as a pillar of the church who is now gone, I want you to understand that perhaps God has you remembering that person not just to create a memory, but to take that person's legacy and move that along yourself.  To realize that God is now calling upon you and me to be the pillars of the church.  For us, at some time in our life, to be thinking realistically about the life of green bananas.  But beforehand, to be pillars, to be people we have looked to who have provided us great leadership, great service, and great accountability as well.  So the gratefulness begins right now, not only for those who have served us and gone with the Lord.  But many who are present today are present-day disciples, those who help us to grow, who teach us God's Word, who live by it alongside of us, who hold us accountable to God's teaching as well.  Why?  Because they love us.  We are grateful for the giving nature of our Faith Church member and we are grateful in giving because God is grateful in giving as well.  And this is what Jesus says about the relationship we're to have with our Lord.

 

We're not to think of God as one that we have to bother in order to get Him to help us, like the first part of the story.  You see, quite often too many people will misinterpret this as saying, "Well, if I bug God enough, for sure I'll get Him out of bed to help me."  That's not what Jesus says at all.  In fact, He qualifies that by giving us the next section--the one with which I think we're most familiar.  "How many of you, if you have a child who asks you for a fish would give your child a stone?  Or if your child asks for an egg, would you give your child a scorpion?  If you know how to give good gifts to your child, how much more will the Lord give," as according to Luke's gospel, "the Holy Spirit to those who ask of God?"  That's the relationship God wishes us to have.  And as I think about stewardship and I think about giving, I think it's important for us to understand the giving nature of God, because it is the giving nature of God that we must begin with, because we just begin with God with regard to stewardship.  Because stewardship is not about fundraising.  It begins with understanding faith-raising.  And it's important for us, then, to begin with understanding who God is for us and who we can be for God.

 

Let's look at this passage again.  I already gave you the first half.  Really what that first half has to do with is Jesus giving qualifications to the disciples about what it means to receive and to ask.  That God is not far away.  God is not locked up in His house.  And you will never have to bug God for something.  He's not like the person in the first section who, locked up tight, ready to go to sleep, has a friend who knocks on the door, says, "Hey, it's midnight, but I got a friend who just came in.  Can you help me out?"  And the person saying, "Nope.  I'm in bed.  That's it.  Sorry."  But by the persistence of the person knocking, certainly then the person will get out of bed.  And, again, as Jesus said, not because he was a friend, just because he was persistent. 

 

Well, persistence is not what Jesus is saying you need to do in order to hear from God.  He's saying that's what happens to those who seek on their own to get what they want in life today.  But it's not so with God.  And then He presents to us the second section--the one that tells us if we seek for God, we will find him.  If we ask for God, He will give Himself to us.  If we knock on the door to receive the truth of who God is for us, God promises to give that to us as a loving Father, as a Heavenly Parent, as the one who indeed cares for us and intends to be known in relationship--nothing less than the wonderful relationship between a parent and a child. 

 

You have to understand how important that is.  That was not something understood in Jesus' day.  God was far off.  The only relationship you could have with God was a formal one, one that you could only have through your own sacrifices, through your own offerings to God.  It was possible to begin to know God through the Word of God, but all you could have was knowledge and a relationship based on your sacrifices.  And here comes God in the flesh, God incarnate, Jesus Christ, who begins the new relationship for us, who offers us the opportunity to be reconciled to God and to actually have the ability to call God "Abba," which in Aramaic means "Daddy."  To have that new relationship that's offered to us uniquely through Jesus Christ in His death, in His resurrection, and in the coming of the Holy Spirit.  And Luke alludes to that here because what Luke is talking about with regard to the gift that we ought to be asking for is nothing less than the Holy Spirit.  Let's look at that again.  That's down in verse 13:

 

If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him!

 

Now, if you're more familiar with the Matthew passage, the passage in Matthew talks about "good gifts."  In Matthew chapter 7, verses 11 through 13, the same passage is given, and what Matthew does is he uses the doublet of "bread and stone"--"How many if your child asked for bread would give a stone?"  And then Matthew also uses, "How many of you if you had a child who asked for a fish would give him a snake?"  You wouldn't do that, would you?  And then Luke adds this one:  "How many if a child asked for an egg would give him a scorpion?"  If you put these three together, you have a triplet here:  "bread and stone," "fish and snake," "egg and scorpion." 

 

It's a little different in Matthew's rendition of this.  For the curious among you--of which we pastors are as we try to exegete the passages in the original language, and look at our commentators to see what is said about this, and try to pull all this together for a good sermon that is proper and appropriate--in asking and researching why the difference, there really is no specific understanding as to why Matthew and Luke differ just a little bit on this story.  The speculation amongst the Bible scholars are Matthew, of course, was an eyewitness.  He was one of the twelve.  His name, of course, was Levi, the tax gatherer.  He was also known as Levi.  You remember that.  Matthew was an eyewitness who wrote his gospel based on his eyewitness account.  Luke was not an eyewitness.  Luke was the next generation following.  He was an eyewitness of the eyewitnesses.  He was most likely considered to be one of the followers of Paul, so as he heard Paul's preaching and Paul's telling of the account of Jesus' life, he was writing all this down.  And if you read in the beginning of Luke and the beginning of Acts, you know that he was writing to a particular person named Theophilus.  And what Luke was doing was taking all that he had heard and all that he had read and some scholars even believe that Mark's gospel had already been written at this time, so when Matthew and Luke were writing that, they were writing a lot of what Mark was saying, but then there's still some independent accounts.  You have to remember that most of this was oral history at the time and there were still many eyewitnesses around so there wasn't a need for writing until the later days as the eyewitnesses began to pass on. 

 

So there are some differences here.  We're not exactly sure.  It leads us to some speculation--although speculation you can't put concrete theology to--but one of the things that I liked reading was this.  Matthew, being an eyewitness, heard indeed what Jesus said and so he probably may have quoted Jesus most appropriately technically saying, as Jesus did, "How many of you if your child asks for a loaf will give him a stone?  And if you being evil know how to give good gifts, how much more will our Heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask of Him?"  That could be actually the technical quote.  And then I want you to think about Luke if that's certainly true.  Because what Luke then does is identify the primary gift by whom, indeed, we understand God to be giving:  the Holy Spirit.  The Holy Spirit promised by Jesus as the one who is the author of truth who gives us the understanding to know who God is for us.  Indeed, you can know about the Bible and you can know about God, but without the Spirit, there is no understanding of a relationship.  We don't get this until we get the Holy Spirit.  We cannot get to God on our own.  We need God to come to us.  And He did so in Jesus Christ and He does so right now in the Holy Spirit for you and me.  The revealer of the truth, the one who, as it says in Scripture, comes alongside of us, the Paraclete, the one who comes alongside, who protects us, who guides us, who reveals to us. 

 

And there is no other way for this to be revealed to us but through the Spirit, that Jesus is indeed Lord and Savior.  And God does call us, indeed, to be in relationship, and that we can be freed up to be for God as much as God is for us.  That we can be free from our sin and reconciled to God once and for all.  And to understand and to freely raise our arms up to God and say, "Abba" as a child to a Heavenly Parent who loves us more than any other earthly parent ever has.  No matter what kind of relationship you have had with your parents, if you've had a relationship with your parents at all, you can understand inside innately what kind of relationship you should have.  Many of you can tell wonderful stories about the relationship that you've had with your Mother or Father.  Others of you may not be able to do the same thing.  But inside everyone of us know what we ought to have been treated like by our parents and how we would like to treat others.  Well, that's the relationship that God has built into us.  We strive for that.  We long for that.  And God offers us that in Jesus Christ.

 

When we talk about giving in the life of the church, when we talk about stewardship during stewardship season, my sense and my hope for 2004 is providing a budget that is solid enough that when the new pastor comes, we're moving forward and we're able truly to say, "What next, Lord?"  But before we start talking about giving, we have to understand the Giver Himself, and that is God, who frees us up and gives us the power of the Holy Spirit in ways that are much greater than we could ever have expected.  I think of the woman at the well.  Jesus came to speak to her.  Here she was, thirsty, and Jesus promised her thirst-quenching life, more than she ever could have expected.  I think of Peter.  And recently I preached with regard to Peter, looking for a good catch of fish, yet Jesus promised that he would catch thousands, yet it wouldn't be fish any longer because He brought Peter up to be a chief witness who would win men and women to Christ. 

 

And so we, looking for good things from God, as Matthew promised, we will receive them from God.  And as Luke reminds us, it is the Holy Spirit which is the chief gift that we receive from God Himself.  Whatever we ask of God, He will give us what we need.  Quite often it's much more than we ever expected.  I pray that we understand this:  That the gracious Giver is God.  That stewardship does not begin with fundraising, but as I said earlier, with faith-raising.  And remembering the giving nature of God and of those who follow Him.  We give because God does.  So as we begin our stewardship time, I'd like for us to ask of God.

 

Two things I'd like for us to ask this morning.  Why don't we ask God to help us give good gifts to our church and trust Him to do so through us?  Why don't we trust God to give to this church through us?  And then, secondly, why don't we ask God to give us the gift of the Holy Spirit to empower us to live in His truth, no matter what?  This is the promise of God for us.  Why don't we take God up on these promises?  And let us do so now in prayer.  Would you pray with me?

 

Lord, we thank you so much for giving us your Word, which teaches us the reality of the relationship you offer us, one where we do not beg.  We do not beg; we merely ask as a child asks.  Help us to remember that, Lord God, and that you allow us to be in relationship with you, not just to know you in our head, but to have experienced your love in our hearts, which frees us up then as well to be loving toward you and loving toward others.  And, Lord, when it comes to supporting the life of the church in financial ways, the reality of budget forecasting--what we do every year because we receive no funds anywhere else, but from our own giving--I ask Lord God that you help us to give appropriately.  Lord, help us to give good gifts as we ask them for you.  We ask this corporately as Faith Church.  Help us to give good gifts to our church, that the ministry may be accomplished.  And, Lord, let us trust you in answering this to do so graciously through us.  And, Lord, I do believe that ultimately we cannot understand you.  We can't even understand what giving is unless we have received your Holy Spirit who allows us to understand the truth of who you are in us.  There is no other way by which you can be known, and this is what you say in Scripture.  So we, Lord, ask that your Holy Spirit come upon us, to empower us to understand your truth and once again to empower us to live your truth no matter what.  In Christ's name we pray.  And all God's people said, "Amen."

 

Rev. Dr. John Ward

Associate Pastor for Discipleship

Faith Presbyterian Church

Minnetonka, Minnesota

 

[Transcribed from an audiotape of the worship service on October 26, 2003.]