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"The Courage to Begin Again"

 

January 19, 2003

 

The Rev. Dr. Will Eisenhower

 

I have a favorite soap opera.  Now, most of the soap operas, I don't like.  And I don't have time to watch them.  But the one I'm particularly fond of--maybe you like this one too.  It's called "One Life to Search for another Children's Hospital."  Do you know that one?  Some of us are big fans of that one.  It's "One Life to Search for another Children's Hospital."  And if you were watching that one Friday, then you know the very dramatic place where that one ended.  Quentin VanWronk, who is the very wealthy patriarchal figure of the little California town of Santa Madrecita--hard times have sort of befallen the VanWronk household.  He owns a fleet of cruise ships, of course.  But, unfortunately, one of his cruise ships was in the Panama Canal, going the wrong way, and struck a tanker--an oil tanker--spilling oil all over most of Central America.  Oooh, he's in trouble now!  This does not bode well.  His fortune would just be depleted with all of the lawsuits that would result from that one, but to make matters worse, when he found out he flew into a rage and in his angry rage he inadvertently caused a stampede of all his dairy cows who went rampaging through downtown Santa Madrecita during the town's annual Duck Festival and now all of the duck owners are suing him as well.  It's a terrible thing!  And so, there he is.  He's despondent.  He has two twin daughters and one of them has left him in disgust and moved off to Monaco.  But the remaining twin daughter is there at his side, and she's saying, "Well, you know, you can always start over."  And he says, "No, no, no.  I'm too old.  I'm too old.  I can't start over."  And she looks at him and she says, "Daddy, you're never too old to start over."  And then that's where things end.  So, next week stay tuned for another episode of "One Life to Search for another Children's Hospital." 

 

I tell you about that as a way of inviting us to look at John, the beginning of John chapter 3.  John chapter 3, beginning with verse 1.  This is the story of Jesus' encounter with Nicodemus.  And John presents it to us like this:

 

Now, there was a Pharisee named Nicodemus, a leader of the Jews.  He came to Jesus by night and said to him, "Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God; for no one can do these signs that you do apart from the presence of God."  Jesus answered him, "Very truly, I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God without being born from above."

 

And actually, the Greek phrase translated here "born from above" can be translated either "born from above" or "born anew," "born again."  "Born anew," "born again," "born from above"--either translation is accurate.  Verse 4:

 

Nicodemus said to him, "How can anyone be born after having grown old?  Can one enter a second time into the mother's womb and be born?"  Jesus answered, "Very truly, I tell you, no one can enter [before he said no one can "see" the Kingdom of God, now he's saying no one can "enter" the Kingdom of God] . . . no one can enter the kingdom of God without being born of water and Spirit.  What is born of flesh is flesh and what is born of the Spirit is spirit.  Do not be astonished that I said to you, 'You must be born from above.'  The wind blows where it chooses, and you hear the sound of it, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes.  So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit."

 

Now the conversation continues, but I want us to pause right there and reflect on what this passage teaches us.  It's very, very important, giving rise in the alternate translation "born again," "born anew," to the phrase "born-again Christianity."  And some people are able to say, "Yes, I have had a born-again experience."  "I'm a born-again Christian."  Some people are not able to say, "Yes, I've had that experience."  But, anyway, we see bumper stickers about it.  We know that that is there and I want us to investigate this.  This passage is terribly, terribly important in directing our attention to--of the things that Christians believe, what is referred to as the "doctrine of regeneration."  "Regeneration" is the idea of being made alive by God, being given new life by God.

 

To understand this passage that way--as telling us about regeneration--it's supported by 1 Peter chapter 1 verse 3 where Peter tells us that God has given us a new birth.  It's supported indirectly by all those passages in the apostle Paul where Paul talks about the difference between having been dead spiritually and having been alive spiritually.  And if a person can have been dead spiritually and then made alive spiritually, it makes sense to see a moment of being born again as configuring right in there.  But I point out all of this as a way of saying we're certainly not wrong to see this passage this way.  It's just that it is kind of odd.  This is the only conversation where Jesus ever said you have to be born from above, or "you have to be born anew," or "you have to be born again."  We can't find any other place where Jesus had a conversation like this, where Jesus said such a thing.  And in particular, when we look at Matthew and Mark and Luke, we don't find Jesus saying this to anyone. 

 

I'm going to invite us to do a couple of things.  One is remember how this passage has been traditionally understood--and I think appropriately so--as talking about a new birth, a spiritual new birth.  But alongside that, I'm going to ask us to also consider that it is very significant, I think, that the one person that Jesus said this to is the religious expert.  You know, the advanced, wise, knowledgeable person of power and privilege within the Jewish religion of that day, because we know that that's what Nicodemus was like.  You know, Jesus did not say "you have to be born again" to anyone else.  But He did say it to Nicodemus.  And I want us to reflect on that. 

 

Well, if we ask ourselves how might we interpret this passage in that way, we want to find other places where Jesus maybe said something similar.  And I'm saying the problem is, you know, He didn't say "you have to be born again," "you have to be born from above," to anyone else!  But if we look in the synoptic gospels (Matthew, Mark and Luke) we find something that I think is very, very interesting as something of a parallel.  Jesus seems to have regularly talked about the necessity of becoming like a little child.  This is something that we find frequently in Jesus.

 

In Luke chapter 10 verse 21 Jesus is praying and he said, "I praise you, Father, that you have hidden these [truths about the Kingdom of God] you've hidden them from the wise and the learned and you have revealed them to the little children."  Very interesting.  God has hidden things from those who are advanced, from those who trust in their own expertise, and has revealed them, made them available, to little children.

 

Mark chapter 10 verse 14 Jesus says, "Let the little children come unto me for of such is the kingdom of heaven."  "The kingdom of heaven is made up of those who are just like these little children."  And then in Matthew 18:3 Jesus says, "Unless you change and become like little children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven."

 

Now, is that similar to what Jesus is saying to Nicodemus here?  "If you aren't given a rebirth, then you won't see the kingdom of heaven, you won't enter the kingdom of heaven."  I invite us to consider that yes, we can allow these two kinds of passages to influence each other.  On the one hand, I think the John passage we just read--about needing to have a rebirth, needing to come alive spiritually in a rebirth sort of a way--that that ought to shed light on what Jesus is saying in the synoptic gospels about little children.  "Unless you change and become like a little child," I think that what we can say is that Jesus is not telling us that we need to start behaving childishly.  Is that a safe interpretation? 

 

I think it's a fairly safe interpretation, but one that needs to get made from time to time because, gosh, if you're old enough to sort of remember the sixties and seventies, it seemed that regularly we were being exposed to guest preachers who would come in and who would read something about "unless you change and become like little children you can't enter the kingdom of God" so we're all going to behave really childishly in worship this morning.  Do you remember those days?  The guest preacher would have some sort of little dance for us to all do and would say, "This is good for you.  See, you're becoming like a little child so that you can enter the kingdom of heaven."  And I can remember I used to think, "No I'm not.  I'm just acting like a moron!"  You know what I mean?

 

But it's possible to misunderstand Jesus saying, "Let the little children come to me for of such is the kingdom of heaven."  There's very little reason for us to think that Jesus is saying, "So behave childishly."  And if there is a parallel between what we have in John and what we have in Matthew, Mark, and Luke, then what we can see is "unless you change and become like a little child" is the same point as "unless you are born again," and that it is the having the starting-over experience spiritually that Jesus is talking about.

 

Now, I want to be careful and I want to say, you know, some of you are going to ask, "If I haven't had a born-again experience, do I need to have one?"  (Ooooh!  This is going to be controversial!)  "If I haven't had a born-again experience, do I need to have one?"  Well, let me just say this:  Would you say that right now you are alive to God and God is alive to you?  Would you say that you feel like you have a living relationship to God?  And if so--if you feel that in your present experience that you and God are on a first-name basis and you have an aliveness in your relationship with God, then I would say, "Well, no.  You have what a born-again experience would give you."  And the fact that you can't remember ever having had . . .    I mean, maybe you were never in town when Billy Graham came and invited people to come forward and so you can't point to that particular . . .   But if your relationship with God is an alive one, then I would say, "No, you don't have to have a particular experience."  You don't have to have an experience that I've had.  I would never say, "Oh, yeah.  Everybody's got to have Will Eisenhower's experiences or, I'm sorry, your Christianity is somehow or other deficient."

 

But on the other hand, if you would say, "Well . . . you're asking me if you're alive to God and if God's alive to me . . . and I'm really not sure.  I don't know.  I'm not confident that I have a living relationship with God."  Picture it kind of like this:  When you pray to God, do you feel pretty much the same way that you would feel if you wrote a letter to Bill Clinton?  That is, you know that Bill Clinton is a really likable guy, but you're not sure whether you trust him or not.  And when you write him a letter, you're not really sure whether he's ever going to read it or not.  Do you understand?  And when you pray is it kind of like, "OK, now I like God a lot, but I'm not really sure whether I can trust Him.  And when I pray, I don't know whether He hears me or not."  Well, if that's where you are, then I say, "Hey!  The Bible has good news for you.  That can change!  You don't have to have, in your relationship with God, that kind of ignorance and suspicion and incompatibility.  You can have a relationship with God not like a relationship with . . . and I'm assuming this morning most of us are not on a first-name basis with Bill Clinton.  If you're on a first-name basis with Bill Clinton, forgive me.  But for any public figure where, if you wrote him, you wouldn't know whether your letter would get read at the top echelon or not.  You know, offering a born-again experience is for somebody just like you.

 

However, I want us to similarly say let's look at the John passage in light of what Jesus says about little children.  Because I think that the necessity to become like little children in the way that Jesus really means is not one of those things that you do at a Billy Graham crusade 30 years ago and then you completely forget about it and you never have to do it ever again.  "Being born again?  Oh, yeah, I did that one time.  I did that a long time ago so I don't ever have to become born again." 

 

Well, when you say what Jesus is saying about "unless you change and become like little children," can you spiritually outgrow your need to become like little children?  And I would say, "I don't think so."  What's really meant if it's not childishness, if it's something else entirely, then we don't outgrow our need for it.  And I would say me, and you, and all of us can always take from Jesus the challenge to change and become like little children in terms of being willing to start over in your relationship with God, being able to begin again in your relationship with God. 

 

And I submit to you the purest, best, truest sign of spiritual maturity is an eagerness, a willingness, to go back and start over with God, to hear the beginning lessons of Christianity presented once again, to go back to the basics.  If you have an eagerness to always be willing to go back and hear the basics once again--"God so love the world [later in this chapter] God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him would not perish, but have everlasting life."  You know, if there is an eagerness in you to hear passages like that preached on, then I'd say that's true spiritual maturity.  But if instead you kind of go, "Oh, no, no, no.  That beginning stuff?  No, I already heard a sermon on John 3:16 one time.  I don't need that any more," then you are, I submit to you, someone--a religious expert, just like Nicodemus was.  "Oh, no.  The basics?  Oh, no, no, that's not for me.  I'm glad we teach the basics to the kids in Sunday School, but I want something advanced.  I want something lofty.  You know, I want to sort of move away into the really sophisticated. . ."

 

Well, if there is no longer a hunger and a thirst in you to hear the very elementary saving truths of Christianity presented once again, then I think that you are someone just like Nicodemus was--the religious expert. 

Jesus is saying, "You know what, religious expert?  You need to go back and start over." 

And Nicodemus goes, "Go back and start over?  You're kidding!  I mean, look at how long I have been becoming an expert--I've been working on expertise in the Jewish religion for so long, how can I go back and start over?"

And Jesus say, "Well, you know what?  The flesh can't, but the spirit can."

 

Your flesh cannot, your natural self cannot motivate you to go back and start over, but the Holy Spirit can create in you a desire to.  Now, I want to set out for you three different arenas in which I want to ask us to look at this passage--being born from above, being born anew--as both telling us about the doctrine of regeneration, the being made alive by the Holy Spirit, but also something about the nature of spiritual maturity (spiritual maturity being a willingness to begin again, to start anew, to go back and start over).

 

The first one is this.  I want to tell you about myself.  I love to talk about, to preach about, beginning Christianity, "mere Christianity," basic Christianity.  My favorite thing as a preacher is to preach on any of the elementary truths, the basic truths, the beginning truths--any of those things that you would want someone who is first starting out as a Christian, to hear.  Those are the ones that I prefer to major in.  And in fact, let me tell you that the greatest compliment that I ever received was I was invited to go to a junior high snow trip as the featured speaker.  My first talk was supposed to be Friday night before all of these junior highers.  I think they put me on at about--you know, everybody drives up to the mountains and they put me on about ten o'clock at night.  And the junior highers had been in cars for about eight hours.  They bring them in, sit them down, sing a couple songs, and then they say, "Will, you're on."  OK?  So that was going to be my first talk, and then I think Saturday night second talk and Sunday morning third talk.  That's how those things always go.  And so I tried to make it as elementary an introduction to what I wanted to talk about for the weekend as you could possibly do, and keep it fairly brief.  And then this is what happened.

 

We finished.  All the junior highers go off to their cabins and keep their counselors awake until five in the morning.  You know what I mean.  Now it's 7 a.m. Saturday morning and the counselors are all sitting around on the floor in a great big circle for the counselor meeting.  You know how this goes.  We're sort of talking about, "OK, how did last night go?"  And then somebody said, "How was Will's talk to the junior highers?"  And one of the cabin counselors looked at me and said, "You know, that was so simple, only Will Eisenhower could have done it."  And I thought, "Oh, my gosh, I've never received a compliment that good and I may never again!"  At the end of my life if they put on my tombstone, "That was so simple only Will Eisenhower could have done it," you know I would love that!  Because I'm eager to talk about the basics. 

 

And I know that wherever a person is--you know, junior higher Friday night at ten o'clock after a long car ride, excited about the snow, you know.  Person midlife.  Person getting on in years.  I know that there's nothing more important than from time to time to come back to the elementary truths, the basic truths, the simplest things that God presents to us in His Word, the things that are so simple that you can explain it to a child simply, and so profoundly important that we need to continue to allow ourselves to be exposed to those things as we move forward in life.  So I'm eager to be somebody who can talk about the simple truths of the faith.  I can do other things, too, and I'm happy, when invited to, to get as complicated as you want me to get.  We can do that.  It's just that I don't think that there's a correspondence between complicated and profound.  No, I think the correspondence is a "simple and profound" correspondence, and the things that are the most important for us as a church to keep before our attention are the simple things. 

 

So you should know that I believe that "unless you change and become like little children" is a saying of Jesus very similar to, "unless you are born again," and both of them are saying you have to be willing to go back and start over.  You have to be willing to just kind of erase the chalkboard and let God put the most important things back up there.  And I'm happy to have a preaching ministry that tries to focus on that.

 

The second one is, on our side, as receivers of the message, I want to commend the Alpha program to you if you haven't already enrolled and been a part of the Alpha program.  The wonderful thing about the Alpha program is it does this very thing that I am talking about:  It reintroduces us to the simple and the elementary truths of the gospel.  It's a wonderful program for taking someone who is completely unchurched and has never heard of Jesus Christ and moving them simply through the most important truths that they will ever hear.  But for those of us who have heard it all before, it's also useful for us.  And I invite you, if you have not signed up for an Alpha in the past, consider letting yourself be exposed once again to what is simple.  But not just simple, but simple and profound.  What an advanced believer in Jesus will always be hungry for is opportunities to receive the basics once again, hopefully in a slightly new format.

 

So my call as a preacher is, you know, to try to take profound things and talk about them simply.  My invitation to us as a congregation is that we take advantages to go back and start over, that we not say, "Oh, Alpha.  What is that?  Oh, an introduction?  No, I've already had an introduction.  I had an introduction to the Christian faith 40 years ago, so I don't need to have another one."  Well, if the last time you had an introduction to the Christian faith was 40 years ago, I'd say it's time. 

 

And then, last of all, us as a church during this time that I'm with you, this time of transition.  I'd say it's a very, very good thing if we as a church run across opportunities to stop what we're doing and say, "Hmmm.  Maybe in some very, very important, basic ways, we should go back and start over."  Maybe in some very, very important ways, we should not presume that we can just sort of let God build on the foundation that we have from where we are right now, but let God take us back so that we as a congregation can start over together. 

 

I want to tell you, just in closing, about where this kind of all started for me.  I had graduated from seminary (this was a long time ago) and I was the youth pastor at a Presbyterian Church in Lincoln, Nebraska.  We had a midweek junior high program.  There were usually 40 to 65 junior highers there.  (It was always 65 on pizza night and the rest of the time it was, you know, less.)  But our system was one of the volunteer leaders would lead the Bible study.  First we would go play in the gym, and then we'd have the Bible study, and then we'd have . . . you know how those afternoon programs go.

 

Well, Beth Brestol was supposed to teach our afternoon Bible study on this particular Wednesday.  We're in the gym, and we're playing the gym games, and I'm looking, and Beth Brestol isn't there.  I was a new pastor and I didn't know you always have to have a spare junior high Bible study up your sleeve because you never know when you're going to need one!  I didn't know that yet.  I know it now, but it didn't know that yet.  So I'm looking around and, you know, gym time ends and the junior highers are racing back to the youth room and I'm walking along and I'm saying, "Beth Brestol isn't here . . . and I'm going to have to lead a Bible study  and I don't have a single thing prepared!"  So this is what I did.  They were all sitting down.  We had a chalkboard on stilts at the front and I went over and I said, "Now has anyone here heard of the Four Spiritual Laws?"  And no one said, "Oh, yeah."  They were just very blank.  So I proceeded to tell them the absolute simplest and most basic presentation of the gospel that I knew.  It consisted of saying:

 

Number one:  God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life.

 

Number two:  Because you and I are sinners, we cannot know and experience God's love and His plan for our life.

 

And number three:  Jesus Christ is God's only provision for our sin. 

 

But number four:  It's not enough just to know these things.  You and I have to respond to them in faith by inviting Jesus into our life.

 

You know, those four things just sort of took about twenty minutes to go through those four points.  And here is what dramatically changed me forever.  I thought that I was sort of really wasting their time.  It's just sort of, "I don't know what to do right now.  I'm just going to tell them the simplest presentation of the gospel I know.  We'll be done with it, and I'll say, 'Whew!  I hope I never have to do that ever again!' "  Well, when I finished I put down the chalk there in the little chalk-place and I turned around and they were absolutely silent.  And they were absolutely motionless.  (And these are junior highers I'm talking about!)  Nobody was hitting, poking, scratching, giggling.  They were absolutely silent for the longest time and they were absolutely motionless.  And then Kathy Mann, who was right there and sitting in the front row, looked at me and she said, "Why didn't anyone ever tell us this before?"  And her question changed my life forever.  Because I just want to make sure wherever I am a pastor, that it is not the case that I leave there without having told people what are the simplest things about Christianity, which after all, are the most profound things about Christianity. 

 

If somebody sooner or later doesn't remind us, and we forget, that would be a terrible, terrible, terrible thing.  So I'm delighted to commend the Alpha program to you as a great way to get reminded again about the simple truths of Christianity.  And I hope some of you will go and will sign up for those things.  Whether you do or not, please understand for the person this morning who would say, "No, I can't say that my inner self is alive to God," God has new life for you if you'll let Him give it to you.  And for all of us who can say, "You know, yeah, I have a relationship with God," the challenge is always worth hearing:  OK, well, when was the last time you let yourself go back and start over?

 

Let's pray.  Dear Heavenly Father, we thank you for your Word which challenges us when we let it.  Lord, I ask that you would move us forward further and further into realms of spiritual maturity, but, Lord, always in a way so that we're all willing to have experiences that take us back and remind us of the very simplest things that your Word has to teach us.  And it's in the strong name of Jesus that we pray.  And all God's people said, "Amen."         

The Rev. Dr. Will Eisenhower

Interim Pastor

Faith Presbyterian Church

Minnetonka, Minnesota

 

[Transcribed from an audiotape of the worship service on January 19, 2003.]